What happens in a relationship breakdown?

For most people, fear is the biggest reaction to a relationship breakdown.

Dean Vickery talsk about relationship breakdown

These are some of the questions which need to be addressed.

  • Where will I live
  • Who will pay the mortgage?
  • What about where the children are going to school
  • How about the bills?
  • I do not know about the finances
  • How will I live?
  • The private schools fees – how will they be paid?
  • What will my friends and family say?
  • Will I see my children?
  • What about my work bonus?
  • My partner has said she wants to move back to near where her family live and take the children
  • How much will I have to pay for the children?
  • I want to stay in the same house
  • What about the debts?
  • How about my car and bikes?
  • What about my businesses?
  • My partner never paid a bill.
  • Will I get a mortgage?
  • How about renting?
  • I gave my best years to the relationship.
  • Is there enough to go around?
  • What happens if there is not enough to go around?
  • What will happen to my saving and my pension?
  • Can the other person change the locks on our home?
  • What about if the person has run off?
  • What going to all the assets and saving?
  • How long will it take?
  • My partner will not comply
  • How much will it cost?

The fear comes from the unknown and the sooner you can address what may happen in the future, the better. Dealing with the situation head-on may be scary, but with an expert to guide you through, you can ease the anxiety which a relationship breakdown can bring. Think of an expert as giving you a tow.

We thank Dean Vickery of Barsar & Associates for this useful information.

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a relationship breakdown ca cause fear and anxiety

These are some of the questions one should consider before making the difficult decision to call it a day.

Think about the above and although you may be unhappy, consider your life living on one wage.

A relationship breakdown is an emotional matter and as such we do things on the spur of the moment. How to approach the difficult ex.

Dean Vickery features in The Hug Directory. He also runs a very useful out of hours divorce service and free clinic. Find out more here

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