The Group Hug Expert
As a Business and Law of Attraction Coach, I have both business and non-business clients approaching me in order to help them with their business or attracting their desires.
I do this using coaching skills and working with the Universal Laws of Attraction. Because once you understand them and apply them, then everything else will fall into place.
Let’s face it, we all want something in our lives to help us to feel better. But when we get it, does that actually fulfil our needs?
Wikipedia – The Law of Attraction
Probably not. Because most of us don’t even know what we really want and go through life accepting what we have as we don’t ‘believe’ we can have or ‘deserve’ to have something better.
We stay in relationships that no longer fulfil us (guilt). We stay in jobs that bore or stress us (security), and we try to please others in order to feel a sense of worth (worthlessness).
Throughout my life I’ve experienced all these types of emotions.
But it doesn’t have to be this way. We all have choices, and we all have the freedom to make those choices.
Let me talk to you about the Universal Laws that I use both in my own life and in my Coaching practice that help my clients.
I use 9 Universal Laws:
- The Law of Attraction
- The Law of Deliberate Intent/creation
- The Law of Allowing
- The Law of Sufficiency and Abundance
- The Law of Polarity
- The Law of Pure Potentiality
- The Law of Detachment
- The Law of Reflection
- The Law of Gestation
Now, each client I have is different; they have different belief systems on life and this alone can be the a triggering factor to why they feel stuck and that life appears to be working against them.
Let me give you a couple of client scenarios so you can see how I’ve helped clients using the Universal Laws.
Client #1 using the Law of Reflection and Detachment
My client was under a lot of stress with a court case that had been going on for a while. He was up against a company that had taken him to court stating that my client owned them money. When my client explained the situation, it was also clear to me, based on what he had told me (having not known both sides), that the company suing my client didn’t have any real evidence to support their case. However, this company often won just by bringing about legal action that would then force the plaintiff to pay up for fear of losing and having to pay out for all the costs.
Whilst I was discussing this with my client, I was confident that my client was being truthful and asked him for just a minute to stop ‘thinking’ about the court case (pending doom), to take a breath and focus on how he felt in his heart and his gut about the outcome.
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As he was trying to convey his feelings, I asked silently for the Universe to help him. With that, he then said “I’ve just had a thought!”. He then went on to tell me of a driving offence a few years earlier where he and his partner were caught on camera speeding. He had no problem admitting that he and his partner were in the car, but neither could remember who was driving on the night and the camera image did not show who the driver was. So, he turned up at court ready to face the fine, but because the image could not identify the driver, it was thrown out of court for lack of evidence!
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He said, his court case has been going on for over nearly a year and this was the first time he had thought back towards the driving offence. I asked him how he now felt given this reflection. He said, much better and that he’d felt a sense of relief about how the court case will go, knowing that there is no evidence. Not only did the Law of Reflection help my client, but he was then able to detach himself from the fear of losing, and focus on the outcome in his favour.
Client #2 The Law of Attraction, The Law of Deliberate Creation, The Law of Detachment and the Law of Allowing
Let’s give you a client scenario why the Universal Laws need to work together.
I have a client who had moved with her boyfriend to another European country and was finding it difficult to settle. She came to me after 6 months living there for help in finding a job in a country with very little job opportunities.
Her boyfriend had got a job immediately and my client had come to me in a state of depression having been out of work and not earning her own money for all these months.
As depression is a very low emotional state I needed to be mindful that I couldn’t just explain that she’d attract a job soon and that everything would be alright. So, rather than focusing on what her profession previously was, I asked if there was a job that she desired instead. She told me she had previously done Yoga and given a couple of lessons before moving to this country and would love to become a Yoga Teacher.
There were several fears that were preventing her from pursuing her desire.
Firstly, that she was an independent person and felt guilty that her boyfriend was paying for everything (yet he had already stated that he wanted her to be happy and find I job that she truly wanted and not to worry about the money). So, we had to work on releasing the guilt first as that would not allow her her desire (Law of Detachment).
Secondly, she didn’t think she was good enough to teach, which we discovered stemmed from beliefs from her childhood. Again, we worked on that and used some processes to help alleviate those beliefs enough for her to move towards her desire.
Here we used 3 of the Universal Laws:
Law of Deliberate creation/Intent – I asked my client if there were any Yoga studios near her and she had already been to two. We agreed that she would enquire about any teacher positions.
Law of Attraction – Next I asked if this was a strong enough desire where she could see herself teaching yoga. She said yes and that was followed by the most common word I hear from a client, the words ‘but’. “yes. but” “no, but…” you get my drift. Right, there is the missing ingredient. The Law of Allowing.
Law of Allowing – Because my client had this belief system that she is not good enough, this was stopping her from allowing a teaching position to appear. After a couple more sessions working on expelling these beliefs, she came onto the call with a completely different energy and told me that the studio she was taking Yoga lessons had offered her a position as a substitute Yoga Teacher covering some sessions where the Yoga teacher could not attend. And also, that another Yoga studio wanted her to run some classes under contract. So in total she now had 4 classes per week.
To conclude
So if you’ve heard of the Law of Attraction and concluded that it does work, that’s because the Law of Attraction has other mates that it needs to work with. A friend of mine refers to me as her ‘Navigator’. And I guess that’s what I do, I navigate or guide people towards their desires, giving them a sense of freedom.
What’s your desire?
Written by Karen Peters
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